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i need to know what do to in a situation like this?
Well im a girl...and i was over my friends house, who is also a girl, and the whole night she was trying to finger me. Now i liked it and im really tickelish so i was laughing...then later on that night we were in the basement and she fingered me,like she put her vingers in my vagina sooo... i did it back to her and we both liked it. Now i really just don't know what to do because we both want to do it again :/.
This is sooo embarressing.
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Don't be embarrassed sweetie, most people have played a little "doctor" when they were younger. I played with one of my friends a few times when I was about 13 but we ended up going to different schools after that summer, so I'm not sure how far I would've gone with her. I think your ticklish feeling was probably mostly nervousness and after a few more times, it'll more than likely go away. I wouldn't worry about only liking girls at this point as you will find a boy that you'd like to go out with and when you get a little older and your body will know what it wants. You might want to talk to your friend about how she feels about you and if you want to keep this a secret (which is probably a good idea, in case you break the friendship). Either one of you may want to take things further and you'll need to be ready for when that happens. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask or check out my advice column. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Hi, I'm old enough to be your grandfather. I hope the wisdom that comes with age and life experience will be helpful to you.
You have nothing to be embarrassed about. It is quite normal for young ladies such as yourself and your friend to experiment with your sexuality. Boys do it to. If you want to put a name to it it can be called mutual masturbation.
This is not a time to put labels on your sexuality as this is a learning experience. It is finding out what it is like to have someone else touch you an an intimate manner. It is safe because that person is of the same sex as you. Also parents usually do not have a problem with 2 young people of the same sex being behind closed doors, even sleeping in the same bed.
As I said there is nothing to be embarrassed about. Almost all teenagers experiment in this manner. You decide how far you want to allow your friend to go in touching you an such an intimate manner. This is nothing more than a learning situation for each of you and should be looked upon it as such. Do not put labels on yourselves as you are still learning about your sexuality.
Depending on your comfort level in discussing matter of sex with your mom you could consider discussing this incident with her. I'm about 95% positive at some point in her life she had a similar incident. If the two of you are comfortable of discussing sexuality with each other you could benefit by having a discussion with your mom on this subject.
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