theres this guy i have liked from the beginning of the skool year. he was my dream boy.. i loved him. he was the boy u hade dreamt of night and day. i got his IM address and we started talking and he had the nicest personality a guy had ever had. though we never talked in skool, he talked to me online like i was his best friend. he shared all his thoughts. then the febuary dance came and he asked me if i wanted to go with him. i was star-struck dancing around all alone. i said yes right away :). the dance came... i was all ready and glammed upp! i looked beautiful. i saw him in the halls and he didnt even make eye contact with me. i knew right away something was wrong. i arrived at the dance and i looked around anxously for him. my friends looked at eachother and told me they needed to talk to me. they said he wasnt gonna show up. my heart fell. to this day (may) i still feel the pain. i STILL love him. but he loves another girl.and i hate the fact that i didnt get a chance with the one boy in my life that i actually liked. so im asking you now,, what should i do to make him love me? we still talk but we arent as close as him and this other girl he likes. im scared and hurt. i need some advice on what i should do. should i talk to him at skool? online? flirt? leave him alone? please help. thanks. </3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cherokee answered Wednesday April 27 2011, 10:19 pm: Well, before you try to get in a relationship with this guy you need to talk to him personally. See why he stood you up. I would do this in person rather on i.m! I don't really think you are in love it seems to me that you are just infatuated with him. Once you guys talk you can tell him how you felt when he stood you up and how you like him or use to like him. Don't intervene with his current relationship though, because that would be cruel.
PS; If things do not work out between you to just move on and find someone better <3 you deserve the best and do not let anyone tell you anything else. Good Luck! [ Cherokee's advice column | Ask Cherokee A Question ]
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