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I cant trust my boyfriend at all
hey well ive been with my boyfriend for just over a year now there is quite a big age gap I am 19 and he is 31 he is my first love. at the beginning I didnt care if was a dj he doesnt do that no nope he does admin and today I found out he hangs with loads of girls in his dinner hour I got paranoid straight away. it all started when he added his ex on facebook to me that was a bit strange. hes always looking at her photos and stuff, he never reassure me at all he makes it out that im in the wrong all the time never wants to talk and sometimes it causes a arguement. I want to trust him but I really dont want to get hurt I think hes going to go of with a blonde haired skinny girl I just really need some advice. he never tells me what he feels or ever tells me its me he wants I feel so shit all the time Im starting to feel like I should finish it help me please xx
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Honestly i think that if you live in a house with someone and cant trust them then thats a serious problem. Try askin him questions without being obvious, if he ignors your questions, get mad, or walk away then there is something goin on. for the next couple days start watchin his pattern, see if he's coming home later, happy when he comes home, wants to go out more, or is just not attracted to you no more. then honestly i think you should let him go. but you gotta always remember men always cheat, they get tired of stayin with one person to long and also dont jump to conclusions he might just want to catch up and they might not be doin anything. be smart in everything you do about this situation.
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Ok, let's break this down, according to what you say about the relationship:
1)he hangs out with other women, a lot
2)always looking at his ex
3)never says anything nice or reassuring to you
4)makes everything your fault
5)never tells you how he feels
6)never tells you what he wants
If this were your best friend, what would you tell her to do?
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