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my dad is annoying
my dad always looks at me... look at all the things i do, from the very single move i make(in a not friendly but scary way, it's a very weird look, i can't explain it). he always tells me what is the right process or what is the right thing to do (he even repeats it the next day and the next day and the next day like i did not get what he said at the past days, when i'm doing it already the way he wanted it to be) ... when i know i'm doing the right thing... he fucking pisses me off. once a mistake is done he's just fucking disappointed at me like the "...what have you done..." a little mistake is a big deal to him.
i just know, i have my own feet, i have my own bones. and i got my own brains...what's the use of these if he keeps controlling me??
he's annoying
i'm from philippines and i'm 17 now, turning 18 on july
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You aren't alone, my friend.
I find that A LOT of men, once they hit their 40's and 50's, become control freaks. Everything has to be done in a certain way, or it's wrong. It even makes them crazy if it's not done the way they like. I honestly don't know what causes it, I just think they get crankier with age.
All you can really do is talk to your dad. Tell him that you are getting older, and you appreciate his advice, but the only way you will learn is by doing things yourself.
And also learn to choose your battles. If he wants to nitpick about little things, like the way you clean your room or something not too important, try to let it go. It's the bigger things that need your effort, like deciding where you go to college, what your job will be, etc.
If you can be understanding of his wishes, then he is more likely to be understanding to you.
Good luck,
-Abby
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