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abuses?? or care??
okay i am in 6th grade and i have ADD and ADHD and an autistic brother with asperger syndrome and ADD and ADHD and my mom get mad at us a lot for stupid things and hurts us.... physicaly!!she grabs me hard and shakes me to death and pulls my hair or sits on me and yells till i cry and once me and my brother woke her up and she took our heads and banged them together and make us do chores the entire day! she doesn't have a job and doesn't want one, we live with our nana and papa, she doesn't drink, and only cleans... i know she loves me but i don't remember the last time i hugged her or kissed her...she doesn't let me :( so idk if its child abuse or parenting?ya she cares but when my dad is gone she is hard on me and my brother but she got hit with a belt when she was small so it may be her past but i dont want to lose her i just want to feel love and no pain...<3
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No matter what your mothers past is, that gives her no reason to hurt you. It's one think if she hits your hand or slaps your butt. But, if she is really hurting you badly, and this happens frequently, you need to tell someone. What do your grandparents think about this? And your father? Hav you told him? Tell your dad. Or does he do this too?
If your father and grandparents are not helping you, and your mother continues to abuse you, you should tell a teacher or another adult you trust.
I'm sure your mother is under a lot of stress if you both have ADHD (sorry I don't know much about that, but from what I remember in school is those kids were a little more wilder.. Had trouble focusing? Am I correct?)
Try telling your mother How you feel. I'm sure she loves you.
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