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Hand jobs and Blowjobs
Okay i am 13, and me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple months and we talk about that stuff all the time. We have only madeout (i also got a hickey) but i really wanna turn him on, how?
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You can get on top of him while both of you are fully clothed and rub your vagina against where his penis is. Or you can lay on your back and spread your legs and then have him rub the area where his penis is under his pants against your pants where your vagina is. This is known as dry humping. And yes, he can cum this way but you won't get pregnant.
As far as the blowjobs and handjobs, that is a different matter only because anything like that will soon be all over your school since a guy that age wants to "put points on the board" with his buddies and will tell them if you jacked him off or sucked him. So at this point, I think you should abandon that idea since your relationship with the guy is unlikely to last very long. It just wouldn't be worth the grief from immature boys and jealous girls.
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Hi, I am old enough to be your grandfather and I hope the wisdom that comes with age and life experience will be helpful to you.
I hope what sillyrob really meant was that you and your boyfriend are a little to young to be going down the road of handjobs and blowjobs.
Right now you and your boyfriend should be more into kissing and heavy petting. Thrust me, if you want to turn him on, you can do so with heavy petting.
There is one thing you need to know about boys. While going through puberty, which you two are just starting into, he is pre-programmed, to wanting to have sex. He needs to release the pent up sexual anxiety building with in him caused by all the hormonal changes taking place. Boys his age mistake lust for love.
What you need to do is slow him down. Your best protection against an unwanted pregnancy is keeping your pants (panties) on. He needs to keep his pants on too and his zipper closed.
Sure it starts with a handjob with him. Then he says let me finger you. Next thing you know your both naked and excited, he either has sex with you or cums and gets sperm inside you while fingering you. It has happened. If he cums on his fingers and fingers you; will you get pregnant? Possible yes, remember it only takes one sperm to make you pregnant.
He can take care of himself at home, in the privacy of his bedroom. It is called masturbating and 95% of us masturbate, this includes adults. It is actually what you do for each other when giving a handjob or fingering. Masturbating is the safest way to relieve sexual tension caused by puberty.
Most all of the recognized religions, including the Catholic Church, condone masturbation. Contrary to what my parents told us kids and what some parents may still be telling their children; you will not go blind and you will not grow hair in the palm of your hand from masturbating.
For someone my age I have very liberal views on sex, and teenage sexual behavior. If I thought you were old enough to understand the consequences of adult sexual relations, and blowjobs fit that category, I would have written a different response. Write back to me in a few years and I will most likely supply you with different information.
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All guys are different. They get turned on by different ways. One thing that sometimes turms guys on is kissing on there neck. You will know when the guy gets turned on because he will become erect ( he will get a "boner" or also known as, his dick will get hard. and be careful about getting hickey's, they dont really look that attractive on your skin and you can sometimes be called names from getting them, and trust me parents dont like them at all.
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