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I'm leaving and still confused
Here is the deal, I'm leaving for an internship abroad next month and I'm all set and exited. But the guy who I happen to be in love with, who is my best friend confessed to liking me too just last night. It was an amazing reveal, I was a little tipsy and he was helping me back to my cottage we were at our friend's resort and he just blurted it out. I've been crazy about him for almost a year now but I never thought he'd reciprocate. I honestly thought he forgot that I'm a girl. Now his untimely confession got me soo confused, should I tell him I like him too or should I pretend I have no recollection of last night? I'd hate to start something I can't finish and what we have between us I just don't know if it would withstand the distance. I can't afford to loose my best friend, so I need an unbiased opinion on my crazy love life.
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I would talk to him about what he said and explain how you feel about him too. Just because your leaving for a while (Or is it a lonng time aka Years?) doesn't mean you will ruin things. Its obvious that you care very much for him. and he is showing you that he cares for you as well. His confession may be untimely. but he may have felt it for a while and just realized he may be losing you by you moving away. so he wanted to make his feelings known. You should tell him how you feel because if you don't i think you will always be wondering the what if's.
Best friends is a form of a friendship. If you two take it to a farther step that doesn't mean you will lose your best friend,. but you might gain more than that from him. Not only a best friend but a companion. someone who is there in more ways then just a friendship way.
I wouldn't waste the time you have left with just being friends. you two obviously like eachother.
Goodluck darlin!
Hope this helps:)!
~Jasmine*
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