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Why would sex cause us BOTH to be in extreme pain?
I had sex last night with a guy. The last time we messed around I felt somewhat sore. But this morning, after the 2nd time of us actually going all the way, my vagina is in so much pain. I'm not a virgin if that means anything. My inner lips are red, burning, & swollen. What's happening ? He also was doing the pull out method b/c he didn't have a condom. During our intercourse, he told me he had to stop b/c HE was in pain. I really don't understand at all what has happened... Why would he be in pain from it ?
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A lack of lubrication could cause both problems - the high friction cuts and hurts you. You are dry and rough and it hurts him.
You also might have an STI. If you make dangerous, risky sexual choices like having sex with out a condom, then you should be getting regular STI checks.
Finally, you might simply be uncomfortable with semen, in general or his specifically. Pulling out does NOT guarantee for one moment that there is no semen from him entering your body - there is. It's just less likely to be viable sperm in it if he pulls out in time. The semen that is there, could have irritated your skin. If you didn't rinse or wash up afterwords, it could have been sitting there making things worse all night.
Go to a doctor. Or to Planned Parenthood. Or another clinic where you can get an exam and STI check. You need to take care of yourself.
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