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my father over the years growing up is very demanding,everything has to go his way... and he\'s very hard to please ......... there\'s nothing in this world u can do n please him...he\'s never satisfied, he\'s an impressionist to the public and a beast behind closed doors..... and i always kept my pain n anger in me until one day he was very disrespectful....... then i started blurted out cryin and tellin him how i feel and still he doesnt care..he finds it fit to say am rude n disresptful.....to be honest this whole issue is affecting me how do i deal with it?...sometimes i wanna expose him to d public because he is sayin am ungrateful n not me alone even his family he tells them they are ungrateful.........
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hey biatch its ok. im the same way...or at least i was. I was in the same position as you were. And no matter how old you were you shouldn't have to deal with it. Unfortunatlly for me i was younge, a tween and my brother younger. If your parents are still together i would think its maybe a domestic violence relationship, no disrespect, no offense but that's how those kind of husbands, men, kind of guys are. Very controlling and domestic, it's their way or the highway, and they can be, like mine manipulating. For this my whole image change, forcing me to the brink of death and going to a therapist, luckily i've got my happy back. You might feel that you don't want to expose him or tell him how you really feel because you think "oh noo, its my family, i cant do that" listen im a teen, take my advice, im very mature but very wise and fun and outgoing and risky. But listen dont think that. You will learn in life, that confidence and speaking your mind to ANYBODY can get you far or no where. So say what you want, when you want. And for me like you i thought he was a good man when my parents were getting divorced, but it took me nearly a year and a half to realize what he was doing and that he was toxic and manipulating,so i kicked him outta my lfe. LIsten girl figure your life, if your parents are divorced it's gonna be easier to kick him out, if they are together tell him EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL even if it's the worst possible word ever. tell 'em. dont let it get bottled trust me, and if its too much and your changing into a 360 in a negative way do yourself and go see someone<3
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