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My parents act like they hate me :-{
Lately-past 5 days(not including yesterday)-my parents have yelled at me to no end.To the point of saying they want to smack me and are saying the f--- word.Even my super nice buy me stuff drive me to school brother is always mad at me.They all act like they hate me.Btw my mom is bipoler-don`t know how to spell it sorry-and she can only hear out of her right ear.Plus yesterday-they didn`t yell at me-they pretty much think I am a liar and I had NO memories of what they said I did but I can swear-I NEVER swear-that I did it.Btw I am 13 and am a chic.It said to put my age and gender if it`s a relationship question so ya.*help*
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Well, you must know this : Parents never ever hate their own children ,no matter what the situation.
Well, refresh your memory and check if you have done anything wrong to upset them, but if you haven't done anything wrong and they're just shouting for no reason then it's not because they hate you it's because they had a bad day at work or they're insolvent and bankrupted.
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ughh i feel for you bro ( i say that alot not calling you a guy ) my parent and brother do the exact same thing i cry alot cause of them 3 but ive learned lately if i ignore them and cry later on when they cant see me it help me a heck lot more
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Hi, I am old enough to be your grandfather and I hope I can be of some help to you.
You say mom is Bipolar; to me this means she has been diagnosed by a psychiatrist and is under his/her care. She should also be on medications for this disorder. Bipolar disorder does not go away but it is manageable with proper care and medication. If mom is not being compliant, meaning not taking her medication, or seeing her psychiatrist regularly, then this is a major portion of the problem.
There is one other thing you need to know about this disease. It is an inherited disease that can be passed from one generation to the next. You and your brother need to be checked for it as well and to be monitored even if at this time you show no signs of having it.
IF mom is non compliant with her medication, not unusual for someone who is bipolar, then you need to tell someone who can help you as you, your brother and your mother could be in danger.
Tell your teacher or school principal. Call 911 if need be, but you need to get mom either back on her medications or to a proper doctor to prescribe medications that will help her deal with her illness.
Her ranting and raving, your brothers being nice to you one day and being mad at you the next are all part of this disorder. They both need to see a doctor for treatment and you too need to be screened both for Bipolar disorder and other forms of depression.
In order to help yourself you have to help them. If that means you have to call the police then that is what you must do. People with this disorder can very easily harm themselves and others so you need to do what must be done to protect and help both them and you.
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they probably dont hate you but they shouldnt say f**** around you they probably are very stressed so trry to be nice because being a parent is hard.
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