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what should i do
i want a guys stance on my delima, lately i've just been getting girls advice. So i've willingly hooked up with a 40 year old and i'm 21. But the one time we did have sex, i pretended to be asleep simply for the fact that i was kind of scared to actually go through with it, yet i didn't want to make it awkward at work if i had said no. So i of course pretend like nothing happened, even though i woke up the next morning asking where my clothes were at in his room, still playing it cool. I'm not too sure what he thinks i think had happened. But the twisted part is that i still think about actually having sex with him now. I don't really know what's going on in my head, but do you think it's wrong of me to want it? I need a guys input on what you think.
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Is it wrong to want sex? No. However, From a 40 year old man?...Sort of
This man is twice your age and he is trying to sweep up a 21 year old certainly isn't on the top of the charts. I'm not going to say he is a pedophile because you are the legal age but I will say it is not normal for a 40 year old to be trying to "hook up" with someone your age as he is old enough to be your father. You pretending to be asleep, Here you let this man take full advantage of you. Assuming he was aware of your "unconsciousness" here he willingly took you for granted. Guess what, It's sick. If you didn't want to hook up with him then I would of stuck out the awkwardness and said "No." it is not appropriate for a guy to be asking out co-workers on the job anyway. I would keep your distant any future offers of hooking up say no. For the future don't pretend to be asleep, You will gain nothing.
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