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he said he didnt want a girl..


Question Posted Sunday April 3 2011, 12:47 pm

ok so like a month ago i hung out with this guy from my work and wehit it off. and he was super cool and fun and we had a good time but he made it clear he didnt want a girlfriend bc he was sooo busy and blahblhblah
i did sleep with him a few times and i regret it....but i did it out of my own stupidity over gettin over a breakup and thinkin he really wanted more than friendship out of me...

now apparently hes had a girl for a week.he brought her to the party i was at last night...
AND she seems totally bland and everyone keeps saying how prettier i am hahaha

anyways why are guys so stupid and why did he do this i dont understand


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Xui answered Sunday April 3 2011, 4:42 pm:
It's this simple: He just wants to get laid

Sometimes men will say and do just about anything to get what they want out of a women. This guy isn't serious and she doesn't have to look like a supermodel for him to try and sweet talk his way into her pants.

Guys don't always use there heads and guess what...neither do women half of the time.


Except that he played you and move on

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dearcandore answered Sunday April 3 2011, 2:02 pm:
You slept with him. He got what he wanted. He's moving on. Take it as a lesson learned and forget about the guy and his new girl. Trust me, if she slept with him she'll find out what you already know soon enough. Guys like this have no reason to get to know you when you give it away first thing. It says you're easy. And every guy might want to have sex with an "easy" girl, but no guy wants an "easy" girl for his girlfriend. Fact of life.

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