|
Worker
I know you're waiting for her to make the first move but she's probably thinking the same thing about you. If you invite her out to coffee, then the ball is in her court. If she really doesn't have feelings for you, she won't accept. And even if she does, you'll have to see what her actions are toward you when you're out. If she laughs at your little jokes or touches your arm gently or plays with her hair a lot, then she's probably into you. If she doesn't then she may only want to be friends. If you need anything else, please let me know. Julie.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships?
you have a very confident advice julie. it's really great. but the thing is, i've always hate rejections, i never want to get rejected. i can't afford to ask her out.
it really hurts me to the fact that she acts like she hates me for some reasons. then she make these loud voices that "they" don't like her (i thinks she's talking about the people). she ones told me that a lot of people don't like her. for some reasons i didn't asked why. i don't care what other people thinks about her. i love the way she is and who she is. anyways, she only say that whenever am around. another thing is, whenever i start flirting with guys too i feel like she's staring at me so furiuosly that the person am talking to would just leave. i bet she gives them a bad vibes. i don't know, i really can't analyze her. she confuses me. there are a lot of wierd but so nice instances between us that happened. she even mimics me too, i think. i wear glasses, and she do. i have eye problem and she does now! i wear jacket, she then goes out and comes back with a jacket on. i laugh out loud unintentionally with someone and she does the same thing. i talked to her once too, we were just talking smoothly, and then everytime i talk she always smile so widely, or even laugh. there's nothing funny, but she was just laughing. i couldn't figure that out. then one afternoon, she was leaving work and it was just my shift, she kept on telling the other coworker that she's leaving "now" and will go to town. three hours had passed, she's still inside and keeps on saying she's gonna leave. i don't know, i feel like she wanted to get my attention or something. then a couple of hours had passed and she's still in there, in a very near distance from me STARING IN MY BACK!!! i thought what the crap is going on here! i felt uncomfortable. it's just that never in my life have i encountered a feeling for the same sex like this way. and then later she made a mess on the floor, went into my drawer (i was standing in my drawer that time) and sticked her whole body against my back for a few seconds so she can pass by. OH MY GOD! i couldn't believe myself that i really got turned ON! you know what, if she really has feelings for me, i just don't know what did she see in me. am not that pretty, am not very smart either, and i am very formal and shy. i don't talk to many people too. in short, i am a private one. there are a lot of girls out there that she should see that is better than me. but why me?
anyways, how about if i'll do something else that would make her come approach me. because honestly i really don't have the confidence to make a move. i want her to move. i want her to approach me. and i swear i will never say no... but how can i do that... for her to come on my way?
]
More Questions: |