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close friends who constantly talk shit/pick on/harrass on their friends I have a group of friends who talk shit on, me and others in the room. We all do it, myself included, but some more than others..
"its all fun and games until the jokes on you"
Ive known these friends for over 10 years of my life. i would consider them close friends.
how can i dissolve or downplay a shit talking situation when it becomes too much to handle?
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the best way if you don;t want that to happen is to not be included in it/ not doing it yourself. that way they don't really have the "authority" to include you in the "fun". and when they do, just show them you don't really think it's funny by simply not reacting to it.. trust me your vibes will show them what you are thinking. but if these friends keep doing it after you've told them how you feel as well, then start trying to find better friends! for your own sake :) ]
just ask them "are you talking shit about me because i want to know" ]
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