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You anwsered a question about me not wanting to ruin friendship
I dint know if you remember but you answered a question about me not wanting to ruin a friendship with a guy I like. I'm so confused, I feel lost. I feel like he's the same with every girl he so nice overall and girls fall for him but he never goes out with anyone. We were texting and he said"I know right, I'm going to miss you and everyone else next year" he walks with me to my classes but I feel like he does it just to be nice or as friends. I'm so frustrated I can't tell him anything because I will ruin such a great friendship that we have. I know about the whole just try and see what happens it better to just tell him and stuff but this friendship is too good to let it go. I can trust him with anything he's like a dream bestfriend:/
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ok well let me say this right off the bat.. first of all, this is your problem. the only way to get out of it is if YOU fix it. Everyone (including me) can give you as much advice as you want or need, but ultimately you're the one who has to make the decision.
If you say this friendship is too good to let it go, then follow your heart. My advice would still be just tell him. who knows? maybe he feels the same way and then your friendship would be even more powerful and you guys would connect even more. But like I said, you're the one who has to decide what to do. If you do not wish to take my advice, then go ahead. It really doesn't matter to me. I'm giving you options but you're the one who has to decide what to do. If you honestly feel like he is your dream best friend and you don't want to mess it up, then just stay quiet and be friends with him. Its your decision.
just remember.. its better to live life taking risks, learn from your mistakes, and gain new experiences.. rather than to live life in fear of making mistakes/making the wrong decisions.
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