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Getting over
Hi ok it's me from the getting over the guy and like I understand it takes time but me and this guy never went out like we were in the talking stage in the summer and like we hung out with each other in the group and like we hugged a lot and yeah aha and it just made me feel wanted I've never been in a relationship and he just made me feel diffrebt and I think it's bc he's the closest I've ever gotten with a guy that I've built stuff up in my mind I can't get over him bc I wanna do things over again and we were so close to kissing but someone we both knew came around the corner anyways it's just that I want him back but I can't and I have dreams about him and I allways wake up happy but then realize it wasn't real so like I can't just say it to him bc I don't have the guts o asked him to a dance but that's wen he was just switching schools and he told me he loved to but bc of the school situation. And I went with someone else and all I did was think bout him:( my one friend thinks I should tell him and my other closer friend thinks I shouldn't and but my closer friend we haven't really been talking bc she has a boyfriend and he's allways with her and I don't like him ok well idk anymore advice??
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I still really think you should tell him your true feelings, regardless if he lives somewhere else.
Don't hold back girl! life is all about taking risks. you gotta risk it to get the biscuit :) You'll never know the truth unless you try and ask. trust me it might be worth it :) i once was so scared to talk to this guy i really liked and i kept thinking about him but was so scared to say anything and finally one day i just got the nerve and said "hey do you want to get coffee after school or just hang out?" and he said yes! and we hung out which was an amazing day.
but if he isn't interested.. there's nothing you can really do about that. you can't actually change his mind. so the only thing you can do is to forget about him. don't get frustrated if there's no improvement after a few weeks.. it does take time. it took me over a year to get over a guy but hey, it was worth it. want to know why? because if i hadn't gotten over it, i wouldn't be as strong as i am right now. there's a lot of ways to forget about him, the key thing is to NOT think about him. so keep yourself busy. hang out with your girl friends a lot. just be happy :) don't let this silly little issue get in the way of your life and your happiness :) there are a lot bigger issues out there in the world to worry about and in my opinion, boys are the least of it :)
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