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in love but he thinks of me as his sister and likes someone else, but I still want him.


Question Posted Saturday March 19 2011, 11:09 am

how do i make a boy 6 years elder then me to love me and he knows that i love him but he thinks its just affection and thinks me as his sister and likes someone else.i am an indian
12 years old female.


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Xenolan answered Sunday March 20 2011, 3:05 am:
I'm afraid Zane is right. An 18-year-old man (and he is legally a man, not a boy) is not going to look at a 12-year-old girl as a potential girlfriend. Well, there are those who would, but you REALLY wouldn't want to be involved with them! Think for a moment if the situation were reversed - could you see yourself at 18 looking at a boy even four years younger than yourself, let alone six?

Your feelings are very real, I am sure. But he is in no position to be able to return them; and even if he wanted to, he could not do so either legally or morally. You'll need to wait about six to eight years before you could even consider such a relationship as workable. You are still a child, even if you don't feel as much like one as you used to. To have a relationship with an adult, you're just going to have to wait until you are an adult yourself.

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Xui answered Saturday March 19 2011, 10:39 pm:
You can force someone to like you, It's either they do or they don't.

Not sure if you are in the United States or not but If you are 12 years old it is illegal for someone over the age of 18 to date you. You are a minor, A child and you are not an adult.

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