How do you know you have reached well.....an orgasm...or that "O".........sorry little embarrassing...my sister isn't here right now so I can ask her....I'm just new to this stuff and its pretty much my first trying.....I mean I have thought of doing it...but scared that I would feel disgusted and stuff cause I go 2 catholic school...but when I tried it...I really didn't know what I was doing....so....embarrassing to ask..but...any advice on that?
15/f
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? julie75 answered Friday March 18 2011, 3:07 pm: Sweetie, you are perfectly fine for asking. I know that they teach you abstanance and masturbation is wrong too but every catholic girl I knew did it, so your definately not alone. When you have an orgasm, your body shakes, your face gets flushed and you feel a little weak. If you want to try to have an "O", start off slow. Rub your breasts and tease your nipples slightly. Run your hands across your body and lightly tease your clit. You'll want to rub it hard at first but resist the urge because your clit will get sore or tender and you won't be able to cum. After you've teased yourself. then you can start rubbing around your clit and then concentrate on the clit. When you feel yourself wanting to rub harder and faster, your probably close to orgasm. Close your eyes and think about something that excites you and let yourself cum. Eventually you'll feel comfortable and be able to find something around the house that you can use as a toy (dildo). If you have any other questions. please ask. [ julie75's advice column | Ask julie75 A Question ]
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