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Can I be a virgin again?


Question Posted Saturday March 12 2011, 1:50 am

i had a sexual partner for 2 yeras, i broke up with him 2 years ago,now my partens arragned my marriage.i donot have any sexual relation for these 2 years,can i claimed myself as a virgin at my weeding night to my would be because i heard that if any girl donot have sex for 1/2 years vagina go back to its normal shape & it seems like a virgin ones.IS IT TRUE?WILL IT BECOME TIGHT AGAIN AS FIRST TIME IT WAS?i know i will not be able to bleed again bt can i try to convence him through the tightness of vagina? is really hymen repair surgery a trouble than its worth?is it have any side effet? please give practical answers, donot say such things like START YOUR RELATIONSHIP WTH TRUTH & BLAH BLAH.

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DangerNerd answered Saturday March 12 2011, 2:18 am:
It is not true. He will know.

You say not to tell you to tell the truth... but that is the only answer.

All lies are discovered.

He WILL find out.

My ex-wife lied to me about her sexual purity. Her mother is the one who told me about her previous relationship because she thought I already knew about it.

And no, it doesn't return to virginal status. This is a lie perpetuated by girls who have to make themselves believe it because they can't handle admitting to themselves what they are. and who they have become.

You had sex with someone for TWO YEARS... and now you want to pretend to be a virgin? Do you really thing that this is fair to your soon-to-be husband?

When he finds out, and he will whether you tell him or he finds out on his own, how do you think he will react?

Remember: You didn't just have sex with the person you were partners with. You had sex with EVERYONE he has ever had sex with. Two years worth of diseases for your new husband? That isn't very nice.

Oh, and if you are going to tell me the guy was a virgin and was 100% faithful to you for two years... I would laugh at you.

Liars hang out with liars. Do you seriously think he would tell you the truth about his virginity and faithfulness when YOU can't even be trusted?

And so, now I will tell you: Do not marry this man if you are going to lie to him. One lie leads to a thousand more, and any marriage built on lies will be a bad one.

Please be smart and honest about this.

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