Neither of you are 100% sexually innocent anymore.
Since it is unlikely that you will be together forever, you will have to explain why you did this to the next guy you want to be intimate with, if you are an honest person, and you wish them to be honest with you.
I am sorry nobody made this clear to you before you made the choice.
Virginity have nothing to do with what is between your legs.
When you are a virgin, male or female, it means that you have NO emotional baggage from sexual encounters, and you have NEVER done anything that could give you an STD.
If you have ever given oral, you may have an STD because of it. Therefore, how does it look when you tell someone you are a virgin, then give them a sexually transmitted disease?
See the point?
If virginity had to do with your hymen, then no guy could EVER be a virgin, and a girl doing gymnastics (or anything else that might break her hymen) would automatically not be a virgin.
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