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How do I let him go?
20/F, the guy is 30/M....I started dating a guy from America almost a year ago. He came here at the start of last month where we met for the first time in person. It was going great for a while, but then we started fighting and our insecurities came back and it never stopped. I was always thinking he was going to cheat on me, since he had a history of being flirtatious and whatnot. With all the fighting and paranoia, I never seemed to be in the mood to have sex with him, and when he tried and I said no he got more forceful, so I got angry and told him to get off me and another fight started.
I felt like I couldn't hang out with my friends because they didn't like him and If he couldn't come then I couldn't see them. I turned 20 on March 1, and my friends wanted to see me and do something that night so I told my boyfriend and he got angry because I stood him up for them, then later that night my friends stood me up which he thought I deserved beause then i felt the same he did when he got stood up by me. That also caused a fight. 2 nights ago we broke up, he got angry because he saw me hanging out with a guy friend(only a friend), which i denied because i knew how he'd react, but he saw me at the store with him and so he knew I was lying. The same night we broke up he kept saying all these mean things like how i'm messed up in the head and worthless, and that he was going to go see his ex girlfriend whom was in Australia too, before he went back to America. I've been calling and texting him since and he hasn't picked up..There was a few times someone would pick up, and I heard background noise but he wasn't saying anything and now he won't answer me.
I know we're done for good, but I miss him and it's driving me crazy that he won't return my calls or texts. I get so upset just thinking what he and his ex girlfriend could be doing together, because I know what he's like and he moves on quick but I can't help it, i need to hear from him and it doesn't matter what I say, he won't say anything back at all. I don't know what to do. I need to let him go but I can't, we've been together for almost a year, we had so much planned for being together and I love him so much. I feel so hopeless..
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I think you should keep yourself busy and find things to do if you sit around then you'll have time to reflect on what happened and you'll become more upset but if your busy you'll be thinking about other things and won't have time to reflect on the situation i realize you two were together for almost a year but you can't make something work that isn't meant to be and sadly your situation wasn't meant to be but that doesn't mean all hope is lost there's plenty of other boys out there who will treat you with the respect you deserve you don't deserve to be told your worthless your lieing or your messed up in the head him telling you that shouldn't be tolerated if he won't return your calls and texts then he isn't worth your time you shouldn't have to wait and wonder if he's going to return your calls or texts he isn't worth it not after what he put you through and what he said to you :)
Happy belated birthday!!
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