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How to confront a guy ?
So my baby's father and I broke up officially like a week before Valentine's day . This guy Sam that I like and have known for a while, claims that I never told him on that day , but I did.. not directly like "IM SINGLE" but I told him we didn't have to keep secrets anymore.. Since I've been single we've talked less and less.. I really like this guy and want to give it a shot. He never texts me good morning or good night anymore as we used to wether it was me or him now it's always ME texting him .Because before the baby's father and I broke up he would always text me at random times , and tell me cute stuff.. We even saw each other three times and kissed but not like crazy sexual just cute crush like kisses and then he'd also tell me he was going to take me jetskiing and if I wanted to go to lunch and all these great things. and Now its come to a complete halt, but yet when I text him he still flirts and acts like he's intereseted.. Like today I was picking up my daughter from the babysitter's house after school , and on the way there I saw him and my friend yelled out the window "SAM" and kept going cause I was late but I had to go back that way to go home so I texted him and I said "We have to stop running into eachother like this. " & he was like "Hahaha , I knew it was you for some reason, you need to stop running and say hi !", SO I TOLD HIM "I'll pass by now when I get my daughter." he said "ok" ... When I went back he wasn't there. So I told him, "You say I'm running but when I went back you weren't there", and he said, "he didn't know". Im just so confused by him and Idk what to do. I just want an upfront answer like if he is still interested or not, cause I can just easily leave him alone if he isn't . How would I confront him about that without being to 'clingy' ..or bitchy? Please help me sometimes I'm so dumb found when it comes to guys. : (
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Even though you are now available, it sounds like he isn't. There could be a few explainations such as being in a relationship himself, but no matter what the reason you are no longer safe ground for him. You are single and available to pursue a relationship that he has no interest in being in. I'm sorry if this isn't what you want to hear, but he's giving your signs that he has no interest in a commited relationship with you. It's time to cut the cord and find the relationship that will good for you and your daughter
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