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How do I talk about this?
I'm having a little bit of trouble. A couple of months ago, I smoked (to get high) because i had never done it before and I just wanted to experience once what it was like. I have not done it since, and i do not plan on ever doing it again. My girlfriend got mad at me because i did it on a night that i couldn't talk to her - she had her sorority initiation. So she was upset with me. This weekend i was supposed to go visit a few friends at a school up north and i had to back out last minute because i have a big test on monday. She was also going to visit a few friends and she rightfully went. Anyways, she decided to smoke last night because she had never tried and she and her best friend promised each other that they would try together. Now here's the thing. I'm not upset that she tried it, because I had. What i'm upset about is the fact that she did exactly to me what i did. She didn't have her phone so she couldn't talk to me and she ended up getting sick from the mixture of that and drinking. Like I said i'm not mad that she tried it, because she too vowed she didn't like and would never do it again, but i'm mad she did exactly to me what she got mad at me for. What's the best way to talk about this with her?
Thanks for all the help. I really appreciate it, guys
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You two are getting mad at each other over stupid choices, You can sit down and discuss how you feel about the situation and admit you were also in the wrong. However, If it backfires..It backfires. Your best bet is to let it go because in this case...You really don't have a ground to stand on. Learn from your mistakes, This conversation is an argument and reality is you were both wrong.
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