I feel like i am ugly most of the time, sometimes i feel pretty but that's only when i take my time on my make-up or hair. All my friends say i am really pretty but obviously i am not since i have never had a boyfriend. i also have a big nose i hate it and i told my mom and she said i could get surgery if i wanted to when i get older but i don't want to. but anyway i feel really ugly because no one likes me and i have never had a boyfriend and my sister always says she is prettier than me and i know that she is joking but that really makes me feel really ugly because my sister is always really pretty even without make-up and when she says that kind of stuff it make me feel like she doesn't approve of me as her sister.
CLN answered Friday February 25 2011, 4:06 pm: no one should ever feel that way. dont think that you are a ugly person every one has some type of beauty. i sometimes feel the same way to but then you have to think its not the way the way you look its the way you look its the way you act... sit up straight talk to your friends dont feel like your pretty act like it. people may not like the way you hold yourself like being shy or not trying to talk to guys... make your self feel more notice-abllle to others and even if you dont or never had a boyfriend doesnt mean its too late to get one.. but most of all dont never ever ever say "i think im ugly" becuz that juss the satrt of becoming what you think you are.. good luck [ CLN's advice column | Ask CLN A Question ]
DearAbby92 answered Friday February 25 2011, 3:59 pm: First off, lets start by removing ugly from your vocabulary. By calling yourself ugly, it gives other people the right to call you that.
Being pretty is not the key success. I've seen not the typical idea of attractive people getting boyfriends and girlfriends. I've definitely had moments of "What is he doing with her?! He's too cute for that!"
Getting a boyfriend is not all about being pretty. I didn't have a boyfriend til I was SEVENTEEN. I felt like a huge late bloomer. But it wasn't until then that I was confident enough, comfortable with myself, and I found the right person.
Guys are attracted to confidence and a good personality. Most guys won't go up to the most gorgeous girl if she doesn't have a smile and isn't been friendly because that is intimidating.
Sibling rivalry is probably the cause of your sister's negative comments. Next time she says something like that tell her you don't appreciate it or just ignore her. Your own family members shouldn't put you down.
You need to focus on YOU. Make a list of the things you love about yourself. Dress to bring out your features, like a mini skirt if you have great legs or a high waisted belt if you have a tiny waist.
Try your best to be friendly, outgoing, talkative, and put yourself out there. Meet new people, have fun, and soon you will be feeling a lot better about yourself. A boy will come to you when its the right time, there isn't any rush.
What I choose to believe is, attractiveness or 'prettyness' is in the eye of the beholder. Tribes that live in the Amazon think gouging their ears and lips are attractive. Everyone has their own opinion. But beauty comes from the heart. Beauty is your personality, the good you do, the people you help. It's something that just lights up the room. All you have to do is let it out. You can find someone who loves you because of your inner and outer beauty.
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