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I can't stop thinking about him
How do you get over a guy you've like for about 8 or 9 months because I can't get my mind off of him and it's like I don't know it makes me sad that I'm not with him or he's not talking to me. And I ve tried giving it time and tried liking another guy but in mymind he tops everyone... I'm not and open person so I can't just say to him I like you because there's many reasons I wish it was that easy but nope ! What can I do??
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hey girl. i know exactly how you feel. i liked this guy for about as long as you have liked your guy and he is the only guy i would think about. i went out with another guy but i broke up with him because i liked someone else and so i realized i just cant go on with him not knowing im crazy about him. so i got his # and told one of my friends to text him and be like hey wanna go out with my friend and he said yes. maybe you should try the same thing! hope i helped! if you want, you can always message mee :)
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The best and only way to get over someone is to find a new person you like better. I know you have tried this but just give it more time. I can say from personal experience and from witnessing others that sooner or later a new better person is found. Just be hopeful and enjoy the other things life has to offer. It just might surprise you.
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I know how you feel. There's a guy who has been in my life for years, since seventh grade (I'm now a senior in high school) and at the beginning I developed a crush on him. We talked a lot and became close, but he never liked me. It was very difficult to let go because he was still around a lot, and it complicated things. What helped me move on was just branching out, meeting new people and new guys, and talking to him less. Now I see that he isn't the perfect guy I thought he was and I'm in a relationship with a guy I really care about. Things may seem difficult now but in time you will naturally get over him. Do your best not to dwell on what could have been and focus on the present.
Try to get out there and meet new people but don't force anything. When you are ready and its the right time a new person will come into your life. Maybe you can try something new to get you out of this funk. Join a club, go on a trip, change your hair style, take up a sport, whatever you want! You don't need a guy to make your life worthwhile.
Good luck,
-Abby
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