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anorexia and my friends
so i have always had ur average teenage girls eatign disorder and htinkign im fat (not that that is a good thing) but recently i lost a lot of weight due to eating little to none (yes i know its not good) and i know i need major help with that but that is not why im posting here.
i have issues with my judging and caring about my friends and THEIR food. like if my friend lies to me or leaves out something she eat i think its so weird when really WHO CARES its no my problem and i dont like to tell my friends when i do eat because i want them to hink im skiiny. its so weird. and its so weird that i even care what my friends eat.
YES I KNOW I HAVE A EATIGN DISORDER
but i want help with the whole judging my friedns and what not issue.....
what do you think?
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First of all you dont have an eating disorder. ED's on the whole do not focus on being thin and attractive. They much more complicated than that. They are mental health disorders where starvation, purging, excessive exercise etc are used as coping mechanisms, punishments or control. Most of the time eating disorders stem from other psychological problems. Its not just about being malnourished. Eating disorders affect the mind first and foremost.
You sound as if youre insecure about the way you look and are projecting your issues of food onto your friends. Its time to stop judging your friends and instead start confronting your own issues. You need to learn about healthy diets and nutrition as well as proper exercise, basic biology and learning to improve how you view yourself. You need to deal with your insecurities "heed oan."
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Hey. I understand what you mean because I've been there.
Personally, I think you're projecting your insecurities onto your friends.
The only way you can stop judging your friends because of their food is to solve your own issues with food.
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