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Senior Prom Troubles :(
Hi. I'm having a problem with Senior Prom. Obviously everyone usually wants to go to senior prom because its the final dance before high school ends and everything. Well, I am not sure if I want to go because I cant find a date =/. I'm a little shy so I dont go around asking guys if they want to go to prom with me. I get awkward around some guys too. I have guy friends but they either have a date, or not someone I'd want to go with because of their behavior. I asked my one guy friend because me and him are very close..but, he's taking some other girl because he already promised her and feels bad if he blows her off, since there good friends also (although he'd want to go with me; she already graduated anyway...) So, i dont know what to do. My friends keep bringing prom up and asking me if im going, i really dont know if i should. Some of them dont have dates either, but I really do want a date because there's a red carpet and everything...that'd be embarassing, for me, to just walk in by myself =/. That's just how I am. I'm sure if i went without a date i wouldnt be the only one...but,i still really want one. The guys in my school are very immature and i really dont want to deal with it so it makes it harder; put it this way, im not the type of girl guys in high school want because im not by any means "easy", and not the type of girl who'd sleep with them right away--which explains why guys would rather date or go with someone whos easier. Im not ugly either, im pretty, its just im, as stated before, not the type guys want because i wont sleep with them. Its not like im looking for a boyfriend, im leaving for an out of state college soon so i dont need that. Can anyone give me advice, past experiences, or just any thoughts? Im so confused! I know senior prom is supposed to be so great, i dont know if id want to miss out on that.
Thanks.
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Many people feel the same way and regret not going later. You'll never know if you don't try. Going with a date is overrated anyway, I encourage you to go with your friends and have fun! It's better to go in a group. It's a social gathering, not necessarily a date so get out there and make some memories before high school is over for you and you're missing all of those people. The worst that could happen is that you don't fully enjoy yourself, and even that is better than wondering "what if I'd gone" when it's too late.
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hi,
please don't miss your prom just because you don't have a date. I had my prom and i wasn't going to go but i had the best time ever. I only decided to go the day before. It's the last chance to see your freinds before high school. So do't hang around waiting for a boy because if you get too close and you don't go to the same highschool then you could be heartbroken, believe me it hurts i had it quite a bit. Go with your friends the ones without dates. I went with my friends even though i had a boyfriend but my boyfriend was mates with all my friends and we went together the best night i ever had.
please don't miss it
hope this helps
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