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What do I do???? Who do I stay with???? I need help quick!!!!


Question Posted Thursday February 17 2011, 12:18 pm

Omg this problem keeps biting me in the butt...I'm on break with my boyfriend lets call him Alex and I'm starting to like my childhood friend lets call him Donny. So me and Alex would fight all the time and never seemed to be on the same page on anything and Donny walked into my life again around that time. He told me he was going to help me with my problem with Alex but in that attemped I realized that I like Donny more then just friends. I told Alex about it and he understood and I kinda made I bigg no no and started dating Donny I didn't think that I was going to start liking him a lot. So I'm still stuck bcuz Alex told me that he wants to fight for me as long as he knows that I still love him and after that Donny told me that now that he has me he doesnt want to loose me again. Both of them are good guys but I'm love with Alex and I think that I'm starting to fall for Donny. So I dont know what to do I'm stuck because whatever choice I make I know I'm going to hurt someone but my question is what do I do, Who do I stay with???? I need help quick!!!! Omg is someone out there that has been in the same situation?=/

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Xui answered Friday February 18 2011, 12:06 pm:
You need to decide what you want, It's unfair to lead your boyfriend on. If you feel you like Donny more then tell your boyfriend you aren't happy in the relationship. Cheating is wrong, If you really love Alex there would be no reason to second guess what you should have to do, but at least have the respect to do what's right. The choice is yours

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Sakura answered Thursday February 17 2011, 11:43 pm:
as you know you are going to have to make a choice its not fair to them that youre so undecided. i truly think and feel free to reject this but i say you must pay close attention to the differnt feeling you get when your around either guy. is it warm safe nerve racking etc. which ever one makes you feel uplifted, alive ,whole,longing is who will suit you. also a sign of true love is if you wake thinking of him and if you fall asleep dreaming of him.
hope this helped even a little. anything else about this ask. stay true to yourself.
-sakura

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