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Don't want to move


Question Posted Tuesday February 15 2011, 7:06 pm

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Were having issues in my family, my grandmother who I love dearly, is in a nursing home she's very old but she's still living, near death I believe though. :/ My fathers family, are very greedy and they bought her house and they have helped her with her nursing home payments but I'm worrying terribly because in 8 months if shes still living, my mother and fathers moeny for her to stay will run out, and my uncle will have to sell our house or by our house. We will have to move, and I truly don't want to I have been living here ever since I was born and I don't want to leave :/ We live in the country and my father and his father built our house, which use to be where my gma lived when she was young, and my grandfather who passed told my dad to always take care of my gma, and my father has..my fathers done everything for her, when my uncle is greedy and truly doesn't care about his mother..and I just don't know what to do..or how to stop worrying about this, I don't wish for my grandmother to pass, but I don't want to leave when my dad loves where we live.


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ashleyrguadalupe answered Thursday February 17 2011, 10:14 pm:
This is tough sweetie why dont you guys look for other options what state and city do you live in they have state aided facilities in some areas check out options of changing her location. My grandmother was in a state aided place because I didnt have the money to pay for it. I feel so sry for u sweetie. I know it might of not been alot of help but I just had to answer.. Good Luck !!

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adviceman49 answered Wednesday February 16 2011, 7:29 am:
This is one of this questions thatbhas no answer as it appears to be totally at the whim of someone else. As the previous weirder said make your parents aware of your feelings. It would be a shame to lose something with the history your home has and should continuebto pass from family member to family member.

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NobodysPerfect08 answered Wednesday February 16 2011, 2:04 am:
This sounds like a difficult situation! And a quite difficult question to answer honestly! I understand how you feel...and it was pretty stupid of your uncle to do that. There's not much that I can offer...but maybe you should talk to your parents about this. It seems to me that you posted this question on this page, because you have no one to talk to. You've been keeping this fear inside for a while, afraid to let it out. But if you never tell someone, how will they know? They don't know how you feel because you haven't told them. Maybe if you do, they can do something to fix this! All I'm saying is talk to your parents! I'm sure they will help you in some way!

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