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virginity
I am in the exact same place you were! Plzzz help me I need to know if you got away with it. Did you husban end up finding out you were not a virgin please help me!! I'm begging you
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... Now, if you don't mind, I would like to answer your question from my own experience.
My, now ex, wife claimed to be a virgin... turns out that wasn't the case. I found this out from her mother, who thought I already knew about it. Ooops.
You will get caught at this. Promise. When you get caught, if he has a brain he will dump you instantly. Not for not being a virgin... for lying about it.
Nobody "gets away" with this. Even if it takes 10 years for the other person to put all the pieces together, it will come out. And in that time, it will eat you alive inside. You will worry yourself sick over something you are hiding.
Do you really want to found a relationship on lies? Warning: All relationships built on lies will fall apart.
If you love this person, it is time to come clean. If you are afraid that you will lose them, don't be. If this is a person that you will lose, better to lose them now than 10 years from now after a couple children wonder why you are getting divorced... and the only answer you can give them, telling the truth is: "Mommy is a liar and she tricked daddy into having you."
How would that feel? :-(
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The person you were asking this to doesn't accept questions from anonymous users. You can get a free account by clicking here:
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... Now, if you don't mind, I would like to answer your question from my own experience.
My, now ex, wife claimed to be a virgin... turns out that wasn't the case. I found this out from her mother, who thought I already knew about it. Ooops.
You will get caught at this. Promise. When you get caught, if he has a brain he will dump you instantly. Not for not being a virgin... for lying about it.
Nobody "gets away" with this. Even if it takes 10 years for the other person to put all the pieces together, it will come out. And in that time, it will eat you alive inside. You will worry yourself sick over something you are hiding.
Do you really want to found a relationship on lies? Warning: All relationships built on lies will fall apart.
If you love this person, it is time to come clean. If you are afraid that you will lose them, don't be. If this is a person that you will lose, better to lose them now than 10 years from now after a couple children wonder why you are getting divorced... and the only answer you can give them, telling the truth is: "Mommy is a liar and she tricked daddy into having you."
How would that feel? :-(
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