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My bestfriend hangs out with people I don't like
So bestfriend and I are really close and I consider her to be a sister to me. But one thing I can't stand is her hanging out and being super friendly to ppl I feel like have wronged me many times. For example her and I had plans to hang out over the weekend and once I had gotten off of work I ran into her at MY house hanging out with an ex friend of mine who never seems to acknowledge my existance anymore. We all made awkward small talk and they went off to a party without inviting me even though her and I made plans to hang out. Am I justified in being upset???
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Hell yea you are justified. If you haven't sat down and had a heart to heart with your bff, you need to. Give her basic etiquette rules; for instance: don't come over to my house or make plans with me if you will be hanging out with these people. It is extremely disrespectful to bring a person over to my personal home that ignores me. She cannot have respect for you as a friend or sister if she willingly brings you discomfort either indirectly or directly. If she continues than give her ultimatums. Either them or me. And be ready to back it up and make the hard desicion.
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Yeah thats bs, they were at YOUR house . Like if it were one of there house's then you can't be mad . But thats like bs . But shes yr friend you can't get mad at her like yall are in a relationship or anything. You just got to ignore it and accept it. You can't control others no matter how much you care about them , in time you'll find out who your real friends are & who you can trust . but until then keep yr guard up cause thats shadyy . You should make sure YOUR knows how you feel about it & how you feel about yr EXFRIEND to her, but don't try to come off as any type of control freak lol, and be MATURE about it . and see what goes on from there :)
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