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I don't think I will fall in love again
Ok I know a lot of people think this after a break up but I really feel that I won't. I'm the kind of girl who is a lot different to my friends, like my friends will go in and out of relationships and it doesn't mean the same thing to them. I rarely meet a guy I really like/love so when I find love it's even more amazing to me.
I'm not really the type of girl who will strike up a conversation with a guy, mainly because I'm too shy. I have confidence in myself and I know I'm a great girl. But since my boyfriend broke up with me 6 months ago I have felt down. I feel like nobody will make me feel how he did. It's a real shame to me because neither of us really wanted the break up but he felt it was right to end it (maybe it is for the best) he's started seeing a new girl recently and it hurts because although I am happy for him (because she seems so nice and good for him) I still hurt thinking I wish that was me.
What can I do to make myself feel better? :-(
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Its been six months, and if the pain hasn't went down than you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You need to realize that its not meant to be, and the more you stay grieving in the past, the longer it will take for the pain to go away and you to move on. Obviously, your ex doesn't really care about your break up as much as you do, because he has moved on. You need to pick yourself back up, and learn that he is just a stepping stone leading you to your perfect mate. You will fall in love again, in time, but you won't if you continue to act pathetic, and not pick yourself up. You have the strength and courage to pick yourself back up, so do it. I know its hard, but it gets a lot easier as soon as you help yourself.
There are a few things you could do to make your self feel better.
1. Go out with friends, keep your mind off of the situation.
2. When you see your ex with his new girlfriend, you need to realize that she is with him now, and how LUCKY you are for that. You know how much he hurt you, therefore you don't need him.
3. Find a new guy. It doesn't have to be anything serious. It can be someone just for "fun". Someone that will give you something else to think about.
For instants, "The only way to get over a man, is to get under another". This statement is practically true. We never really move on, we just find someone else to think and worry about. If the feelings aren't real than they will soon disappear, but if the feelings are real, they will remain to be there deep in your heart, but only remind you of what you and your lover had, to remind you of what you deserve && need in a man.
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you will feel this way hun. I know that is not what you want to hear, but when my ex boyfriend and I broke up due to cheating lies etc. I felt like my world had ended. There are alot of guys out there. You dont need to look for love right now. focus on your life. what do you want to do. are you employeed? if not where do you want to work at. get your life together and a man you love with just fall into place. youll figure it all out stay strong and have fun with your friends. good luck
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