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My boyfriend and sex
F/15
My boyfriend Alejandro wants to get intamite with me and he says he loves me alot and would marry me but he says he deserts me to much to betrade my parents and marry me at 15 but he says we should start having sex I do trust him and he totally understands me even if I say no to the sex but I love him 2 and I'm saying yes my parents agreed with me on saying yes and they are providing the hotel suite and protection which is way cool but Alejandro showed me his penis and I don't know why plzz help with advice and answers
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Babe, I think you are in WAY over your head.
You are FIFTEEN! You should not be talking about marriage! I don't think either you or Alejandro really know what love is at your age, especially since you have only been dating five months.
Don't let Alejandro push you into having sex. It is YOUR choice. No one else! Even if your parents approve, it is your choice.
To be honest, it's alarming that your parents are providing a hotel suite. That isn't proper behavior. It's like they are encouraging you to be promiscuous. Having a set time and date to lose your virginity is too much pressure. I would tell your parents to cancel any hotel reservations.
It sounds like you are scared and unsure. You should be positive you want to have sex and are ready, emotionally and physically. There is no rush!
And if you love Alejandro, you can manage to wait. If he loves you, he will wait too. That's it! If he won't wait, then don't chase after him. That means he doesn't care about you.
Don't do something you will regret.
Is there a school counselor you can talk to? Maybe you could go to a Planned Parenthood center? Talking to another adult will help you make this decision.
Please make this decision carefully. In my opinion you aren't ready, but this isn't my choice.
Good luck,
-Abby
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