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i dont think i can be friends with this "friend" anymore
this "friend" i know i cant be friends with anymore. She was never a friend in the first place. So im going to try to make this as short as possible. uhmm...so when i was depressed and lonely and sad, ya know..i went from popular click to not so popular click. and i have been going to therapy for a couple months and i am progessing, and on my way to getting my happy path. i've already kind made of my mind about this desicion which is pretty mature since i am only in middle school, but it has to do with me. i have to be true to myself and say "who is my friend? and who do i want in my life?" because that is what is holding me back from being happy again. Ok..so finally. So when i fell out of the popular click due to my depression and just turning to a differnt boring sad person, from a social funny butterfly. But this girl..this girl is just crazy! i cant take her anymore. I realised she wasnt my friend because i am always the one to start the conversation (most of the time) and call her up to hang, or just anything. and she's sooo the opposite of me, really emo and depressed and sad all the time, always mourning about her problems w/o doing anything about it. And you would think i wold have a heart to try to help her out of her depression, right? Well, i have! She just takes me for granted. and its like i cant keep helping you with your problems...i have to clean up my problems..and you were never a real friend anyway. and when im around her she's so negative..and sad..and i cant have that right now..im trying to get better not have pessimistic friends. i gotta get to the point with her i guess. im doing this for myself, and tog get better off. so i dont just want to slowly get away from her..just let her know how i feel and let go. If she was a good friend that was depressed i would help her through, and that even what i did with this girl but shes not a friend anymore, and i need to worry about me and not this girl, and this goes for some other people. What do you guys think? and what is some advice? i want nothing better for this girl than to get on the right track, but shes really not my friend anymore and i cant worry about her.
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It's good you realized that she wasn't a friend too you but I think the best thing right now is to try and make new friends.
Even people who aren't popular can have some awesome friends, You have to get out there and find them. It isn't always a matter of being popular..It's about finding someone you enjoy spending your time with and that makes you happy. Right now, You should focus on you. The first start in making yourself feel better is to get rid of all the negativity. If you have friends that aren't friends then dump them and make some new ones. Don't worry about her, Worry about you.
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