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What's wrong with him?
okay so im a girl who knows what she wants when she wants and recently i met this guy. he says he likes me and i told him im bisexual ive always been that way so please no one say i am confused cause im not i like them both. so i like him and he says he likes me to so then he tells me hes not lookin for a relationship...what should i do?
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I think part of his problem is that he may eventually lose you to a woman and there's nothing he can do to compete with that. He has accepted you being bi but he may not be ready to deal with a future where you decide you need to be with a woman. I know it's hard to believe but some men actually feel threatened by a strong woman (I dated a few in my life like that). The other side is that he's actually not ready to settle down. He may be enjoying just dating and having his free time to himself. I hope this helps and good luck.
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One thing I really think is great is that you know what you want and that you are in fact bi and very open about it shows be how confident you really are. And this guy had obviously nothing against you being bi and thats great. And you told him you like him and he apparently feels the same way. But look, here's i where I think you are taking your confidence a little too far. He may like you, but that doesn't mean he wants a relationship, and he told you this. Sometimes people just can't deal or don't have the time for a relationship, it's just the way it is. There's nothing wrong with that, meaning there's nothing wrong with him! I think what's wrong is that you expected him to want to be with you. And that's normal, of course, but when someone doesn't want it, then you should respect that. And if he's that stupid, to not want to be with you, then he's not worth your time. You deserve someone who's ready for a relationship and someone who treats you with respect and someone who loves you more that you love them. What you should do, is leave him. He'll realize what he lost once your gone :)
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