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I need advice really badly my friends aren't treating me right
Any one who can help me I'd gladly appreciate anything....Ok so I really need some help. I'm just gonna tell you it really simple:
Me and my best friend were going to give my other friend a christmas present because she was going to give us her $70 purses. She wanted makeup at Victoria's secret from me. (She wanted the whole makeup set...REMEMBER THAT) Because me and my best friend have all the make up there and its really good.
But my best friend didn't get her paycheck yet so she was gonna wait till after christmas to give it to her. After work me, my best friend, and HER went to victoria's secret to get her the makeup, because we all hung out at the mall that one day. We get there and there's no more of makeup of what she wanted. She was really pissed and I didn't know what to do because I thought she just wanted the makeup not the whole set it's 30 dollars and I don't make a lot of money. So I offer to buy her 3 things of makeup there like lipstick, blush or mascara. And she refuses and gets pissed off AT ME and walks away. I kept asking her and she wouldn't even talk to me. It's been a week and a half and she ignored me the whole car ride. She talked to my best friend the whole time.
Then yesterday....I found out my best friend was hanging out with her at mcDonalds and my best friend was gonna sleepover at her house without me. I didn't care but I was kind of mad. The whole time we hung out she was talking and laughing with my best friend. I got really jealous. I was so angry and she didn't even talk to me. My best friend gave me attention but I felt left out. I already talked about this for like 5 hours with my best friend and were thinking about leaving this girl. She also said to my best friend... who would you pick me or her? And my best friend said both. Also she's forcing my best friend to buy her a pair of jeans that cost $80.
It's really bad. I blocked her on Facebook because that's what everyone thought I should do. Should I be friends with her? She's always been there for me. I've always helped her out with paying for her food and giving her rides. People think she's using me. But my best friend would never leave and take her side because we are THAT close. What should I do?
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No good friend would force you to buy her something. That is ridiculous! It sounds like you guys are young, so she can't expect you to be rich and be able to buy her something. Secondly, gifts are not mandatory, they are supposed to be something thoughtful to show that you care. Forcing you to buy her something is not a good example of that.
And you said she is just 'giving' you her $70 purses? Meaning she didn't buy them for you? That isn't a gift either.
If I was you, I would talk to this girl and tell her that she is acting immature and selfish. Tell her you don't owe her anything, and that you don't want to be friends with someone who has a hissy fit when they don't get what they want.
Honestly, this girl sounds like one of the 'friends' that is more trouble then they are worth. I've dropped a friend like this and my life is less stressful because of it.
Good Luck,
-Abby
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