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No a happy family
When i was a child i thought that i have a happy family. i thought that my best friend is my mother just like the other teenagers say. But when I reached college, all of that changed.
I realized that im not happy when im in home and im happier when im with my friends. It feels like i own the problems of the world when im home. im not close with my brother. we always fight to everything. im not close with father for he is always serious. the only one i can talk to some things is my mother. But my mother is sometimes been negative to what im saying. She judges me/or the story im telling her.
She thinks also that im not kind. That i have a bad character. She only sees the wrong in what i do. I seldom hear her saying good things about me.
my mother is very supportive when it comes to my studies and i dont have issues about it but when it comes to emotional support, i cant feel it. When i need an advice, im always not satisfied with what i get from her unlike with the advice form other people i know.
i am pretty much paranoid with my attitude. i am very aware with it. and nobody knows even my family that i need help in changing it. Until the day my mother told me that im not kind! i dont have a good or kind character!
what am i gonna do? what is wrong with me? my family?
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Before i start let me say iv'e been going through what you've been for a while so you aren't alone i don't think anything is wrong with you we've all got flaws and things we aren't happy with your aware of what you need to change and are planning on changing it so that's a good thing truth is siblings fight that's normal i think you should sit your mom down and tell her how you feel she won't know unless you speak up and tell her make her realize the negative things being said to you is hurting you and you aren't liking it tell her you'd like it if she wasn't so harsh and negative with her words and you'd like it if she was more positive towards you hopefully once your mom realizes what she's doing is affecting you she'll lighten up and go easier on you i'm sure you aren't a bad person parents say things they don't mean as far as your father and brother is concerned maybe they aren't aware that your wanting to become close with them because you haven't told them i think you should tell them that you'd like to become close with them and that your wanting to spend time with them maybe once your with your dad he'll start to loosen up and become less serious :)
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