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boob job
im 17 and have ugly boobs. pancake nipples and they sag. its disgusting. i am better at accepting them now than i used to be but even if i saw these boobs on someone else i would prob be disgusted, cant lie. i hate bathing suits, a pushup bra does nothing and never show clevage because all you would see is saggy titts. they are like 2 inches apart from eachother, are not round , perkky oor full. really stretchy skin. i also just lost 50 lbs so i dont think that helped. o have never been with a guy and am really scared to because if my boobs. i would never let someone look at them. I honestly beleive that if i got a boob j.job i wouldnt be so self concious. everyday i worry about my shirt going i little too low and people seeing my boobs, i just dont want to live like this anymore. what do i doÉ im tired of this and i have tried to gain a better self esteem buyt i cant. in reality, no guy can enjoy my boobs the way they are now and its frusrating...
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I know what it feels like to feel self conscious about how your body looks. You're not the only one, everyone is unique and everything are in different shapes and sizes. I myself is a flat-chested girl, and i am aware that in a couple of years, I still will be because my mum is the same. As for boyfriends, I don't think what you look like matters, when it comes to love they wouldn't care less about what you would look like, they would love YOU for yourself and not for someone who have a pair of "saggy tits" as you call them because your personality is bigger than that and they would be able to see it. If they see your boobs and turn away in disgust, it means that they don't really love you, they are just using you for pleasure, and that is not right.
Don't worry about the size of your boobs because size doesn't matter. We are all different. Learn to love yourself just the way you are, because how could you love someone if you don't even love yourself? Focus on the positive things about yourself instead of dreading for perfection to increase your self esteem (eg, according to scientists, people who have big boobs tend to develop back pains). There are also a lot of celebs who barely have boobs, like Kiera Knightly but it doesn't seem to bother them, they just put on a huge smile on their faces. Don't be too self conscious, just smile, and people would focus on your bright and happy face. Being natural is always better than fake.
Just think about the boob job real carefully if you really want to have it so you wouldn't regret anything.
Have you watched the film "Angus Thongs and Perfect Snogging"? It's so cool, and the lead's boyfriend is a great model of what boyfriends should be like, no matter the imperfections.
Hopee this helps
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Two things first about boob jobs: First they are expensive and not covered by insurance unless your doctor certifies they are medically necessary. Second: They have to be redone every 10 years.
Most guys could care less what your boobs look like, that is not where they are aiming at (no pun intended). As long as you have nipples to suck on,breast to squeeze and a vagina to pump their penis in they are happy.
For what it is worth I happen to like the breast as you describe yours. I think they are very sexy.
While loosing weight was a good thing and must have been good for your own self-image I agree with you that it may have contributed to the sagging of your breasts.
If you do want to go ahead with a boob job you may have to wait a year. Most plastic surgeons will not do one until a girl is at least 18. When you do have your surgery try not to go for breast enhancement but more of a tuck where the doctor only lifts the breast and removes excess skin. This will eliminate the need for future surgeries and will in most instances still allow you to breast feed your future children should you want to. But still give you the perky breast you are looking for.
Until you have the opportunity to make a change to your breasts, enjoy them. You have a unique set of breasts. So they sag, big deal. If a guy turns away in disgust because of this then he was looking to get laid and not looking to love you. You don't need a guy like that. Someone that is looking to love you will over look tiny imperfections. In actuality it is our imperfections that make us unique.
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if you feel the need for self-mutilation... well who am I to stop you. I've never had a problem with "wierd boobs" as you call them. people are different, and as long as the girl was cool, I really could care less if she had one breast that was larger than the other(that girlfriend knew how to party, and if she hadn't said anything, I would not have noticed the difference). Guys your age are shallow bastards, for the most part. I suggest holding off until you're out in the real world. I promise you, when you find a dude that likes you for who you are, he won't care about pesky little details.
good luck either way.
-Gunner
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