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Long Distiance and Long Time


Question Posted Monday January 10 2011, 8:03 pm

Hey, so my problem is that me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a year and a half. I love him so much and he really does mean the world to me. I dont know what I'd do with out him. Lately though he's been being less affectionate and well doesnt really remind me anymore that i'm important to him. It's bothering me because well i'll tell him cute things or text him that hes the best and i love him. and his answer is always just "thanks and same." were in highschool but were very mature for our age and have been through lots together. He goes to a different school and i only get to see him on the weekends usually just saturday bc i work on fridays and sundays are family day for him. It's very stressful and i know that we care about each other but sometimes he feels i'm ignoring him when im really just working on school essays, projects, college applications, and then working a part time job so i can pay for my car! anyway i just wanna know how i can make him feel loved and get him to be more affectionate?

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miranda_love answered Monday January 10 2011, 10:07 pm:
Well there's a reason he's acting this way....you need to find out why he's doing this so you can fix it as soon as possible.

Try backing off and give him some space. He probably loves the attention but he might act completely different if you give him some space. If he doesn't click by then, then you need to ask what's going on. Show him that you care and your ready to listen to him. He should be honest with you and communicate in a good way to get through.

He's probably not feeling good about something in your all's relationship. Guys aren't that good at opening up to people. He could be just sad about something. But he should be affectionate and loving back in no time. Just give him some space to think about things and be there for him if he needs you!

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