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I told this guy how i felt about him .. Hes 20 and im 16 .. ive known him for four years . He told me he liked me alot && he likes everything about me except one thing my age .. I asked him if anything would ever happen between us more than friends and he said not untill im 18 .. idk what to do because i really like him and it hurts .. /= Please help ...
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Hello,
At your age, you're still young. You may not be even sure if what you feel for this guy is really "love". Don't be in a hurry. Enjoy your teenage life and just continue your friendship with this guy until the time comes that you're at the right age to decide and to be sure if you really like him.
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I dont like this question but I'll give you my answer.
Wait till your 18 to date him and just remain friends. You can ask your parents about going out with him if it's ok with them then it's perfectly fine for you to date him. But if your parents aren't ok then you have to do what they say or there will be consequences. I hate to say it but that's how it goes for everyone.
It sucks I know. But you don't really have a choice. Also it needs to be ok for his parents too if he still lives with them but I doubt it.
Just don't have sex. I'm warning you he could go to jail.
There's nothing really to do but ask your parents about it first and see what they say...and just listen to them. I hope I helped contact me if you need it. I wish that age didn't matter in this world and you could love anyone you want but life has it's rules and you have to live by them whether you like it or not.
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I concur with the previous advice. currently in a similar situation. My buddy's little sister has been after me for about three years. I'm stationed overseas, and she eventually turned 18 while I was gone on one of my delightful little crusades to afghanistan. due to my job, I've been able to maintain my distance. While I was gone, she had boyfriends and generally continued living. I suggest you do the same.
-Gunner
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This doesn't help, but he probably made that decision because of legal reasons. If he has sex with you while you're 16 in certain states, he can go to jail for statutory rape, which would place hi as a sexual offender. Another major concern is that although there's a four year age difference, you're still in high school and he's either in college or the real world, and trust me the real world and high school have a lot of differences. I'd say try talking to guys closer to your age, 16 or 17 for now, that you might be interested in and date them. Dating other guys will give you more experience, and if you really like him and he likes you too you might find yourselves dating in two years :).
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