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does she like me or is she getting her ex jealous
age :14 male
ok there is this girl who is my best friends ex girlfriend and they broke up about a week ago but she has a new boyfriend and he has a new girlfriend but i never tlked to his ex like one on one without my friend or a group around us but now she came out of nowhere and started texting me all day and she is being kinda flirty but she could have a flirty personality and she even called me one night.So why is she doing this all of the sudden.we dont talk in person anymore but she calls me swett and my friend said a mean remark to her and made her cry so i told him not to do that and he got all pissy and said hell do watever he wants so we started fighting so was that her plan cuz me and him were super close but now were kinda rocky so was she stealing me from him and at first i didnt like her like a girlfriend type way but i think im starting to so was she trying that or was she just being nice ...i dont get it.
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Hey there,
Okay from what you have said personally I think you are reading far too much into things.
Unless this girl is incredably coniving with nothing better to do in her spare time I can't see her sitting down and planning this before hand.
I mean think about it why would someone intentionally set themselves up to be insulted?
I mean It made her cry. It doesn't seem like it was premeditated. Sometimes these things happen friends fall out.
However If she has a flirty personality and is going from one relationship straight into another she doesn't seem reliable or trustworthy at all. Whos to say she won't dump you for some one else who comes along if she is naturally that way?
If its going to cause problems with friends too is it worth it?
dating friends ex's is never a good idea.
I would advise you to maintain just friendship with this girl. it seems like more drama then its worth. After all you are only 14 too you have plent of time for relationships ?:)
good luck and I hope this helps.
Much <3
Jess 17/f
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