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Female Opinion Needed
I am 17/M. I was at a spa/salon, and while checking my secret cash hiding place in my wallet to make sure I had enough cash for my stylist's tip, I accidentally dropped a pic out of my wallet & into the toilet that was irreplaceable, one of a friend who passed in a car wreck. (it was a wallet size studio portrait of her so it couldn't be copied plus her folks always hated me b/c I am gay.) I didn't have rubber gloves on me naturally and my stylist was in a big hurry, so I left it for the time being thinking I could go back after my haircut and retrieve the picture. So imagine my panic when I see a stylist and a woman getting a full makeover heading into the bathroom. I told my stylist and we hurried walked over and knocked on the door, and they opened the door because the woman was still decent, and my stylist explained the situation to the other stylist and the woman. The other stylist said to my stylist "It's up to her", then looked at the woman and said "Well, it's up to you. Let them get it out, or not?" The woman without ever looking up at me or my stylist simply said "Put the toilet seat down and close the door, please." My jaw hit the floor and I started crying but there was nothing that my stylist or I could do.
So my question to you is...what on earth was this woman thinking that allowed her to live with herself behaving in such a fashion? How could she not see that she was behaving in a repugnant & wrong fashion? Is there some feminine thinking I am not seeing here, given that I was the only guy in the exchange and the other 3 involved seemed to think that letting the woman choose whether or not to let me get my picture out was the right, normal thing to do?
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It's not any kind of feminine thinking, I think she either didn't understand properly or was somehow offended (for who knows what reason). Maybe she had used the toilet and felt embarrassed by everything? I'm not sure.
Sometimes people are just selfish. Maybe she did feel a bit uneasy about standing in a toilet cubical, somewhere very private to a person, with a man standing there. But, sometimes people just act in ways we would never think of acting and that really we couldn't imagine.
I'm so sorry about your photo, I really hope you find something just as precious to replace it since things like that are so special.
If it was me in the situation as the woman, even though it was a strange request, I would have gladly let you get it back. I know a lot of girls that would have been kind and stepped away, so don't think it's anything against you as a male.
I think it's silly to that they relied completely on her decision, but they have to keep all of their clients happy in this kind of circumstance. If it had been something like a public toilet, then no problem, but it was the spa/salon's bathroom so they have to be super-courteous to all their patrons.
Once again, I am so so sorry that you've lost something so meaningful to you. Forget selfish people like that too, they're not worth your stress and frustration.
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