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What makes me do this?
ALast year I was sexually abused my boyfriend put his hands in my pants and tried to stimulate me even afteyr me telling him no. WE reported him and the whole nine yards, and I did tell my parents. I am 13 by the way. But ever since then I have been masturbating (mostly to gay porno). What do you think this means?
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I think this means you have been abused and have not truly come to terms with the abuse. You may think you have not put what happened behind you, even with the help of your parents and law enforcement, but in your subconscious it lives on. Technically you where raped. Rape is when you are forced to perform a sexual act. In this case when your former boyfriend stuck his hands in your pants and fingered you; he performed a sexual act. Whether the police charged him with rape makes no difference. What they charge a person with is based on evidence that they can use to convict.
To really deal with something like this you need the help of professionals trained in this area. I would like you to contact an organization called RAINN. This stands for Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network. They operate a 24/7 Hotline 1-800-656-HOPE. They also have an online hotline at their WEBSITE:
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RAINN will help you find trained professionals in your home town that will help you deal with what has happened. Rape, abuse and incest are horrible things to have to go through. No one should have to go through something like this and then have to deal with it by themselves. This is RAINN mission, to help you deal with what has happened to you and move forward.
I'm truly sorry this has happened to you. Please contact RAINN as they will help you move forward.
Here's to a better 2011.
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