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What to do about my brother and my boyfriend?
Okay, to start off I'm 15, both my brother and my boyfriend are 17. Two years diffrence, my brother and I hated each other when I was younger, he made fun of me, he discluded me from my family..(he would make me stay away from him and my mom/or gma when they talked..watched movies.) So I bascicaly felt left out, of everything it made me feel really bad. :/ Now, that I'm older he always wants to be around me. I'm happy that he likes to hang out with me, he is really funny and kind. I love him, I really do he's a good brother. Now, that I'm with my boy friend he absoulutly he hates him, for no reason at all. My boy friend says its because It's like he's taking away his baby sister, he misses the attention. Well, I'm getting sick of the things he says and one day ( I have a horrible temper :/ when it comes to people I care about) he was calling my bf a liar ( because of past things with his troubled ex, and a girl who tried to break us up..)he was calling him trash, my boy friend isn't wealthy he lives in a trailer, he lives with his gma who isn't very nice..he can't help where he lives. Well, I hit his pinkie with the telephone, and broke it. Now it causes him pain and it has grown in wrong :/ I feel horrible about it i truly do. Now my mom says sense how bad my boy friend is treated by his gma, he has to do all the work she yells at him constantly and he doesn't live in a healthy environment. My boy friend treats me nice, and he cares about me very much..I just want everything to stop..I feel bad. After he graduates, I won't be able to see him and my mother said he could stay with us until he gets on his feet..plus he still has to take care of his animals and his gmas will be back in winter..(there giving him the trailer when the move up north to Loraine..)
So I want to know, why does my brother hate my bf? I think it's because he never has had a girl friend because he's been over weight , but he has lost weight and he looks great. He has low self asteem also..So I just want to know what should I do ? Whats my brothers issue?
Sorry its so long..please reply though. Thank you :3
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Well you pretty much figured it out yourself. Though it could be anything. It could be because he is jealous or because he doesn't get to hangout with you as much anymore.
I'd say that you should talk to him about it. Nicely. No arguing and if you think the conversation is getting too heated walk away and try again later. Anyways, ask him why he hates your bf. And if he says a reason which isn't true or doesn't make sense, call him on it. He'll eventually break and tell you the real reason. Ask him to try and get along with your bf and if he can't, oh well, because you are NOT breaking up with him.
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