If he thinks I'm attractive, why doesn't he talk to me?
Question Posted Thursday December 23 2010, 4:24 pm
Alright, all day today I was around this boy who is majorly cute and I would not turn him down if he asked me out, haha. But anyway, everytime I was around him, today, my friends would whisper to me that he's looking at me and they told me he was looking at me a lot. Then at the end of the school day I was nonchalantly turning around to find him because my friend said he was behind me and when I turned around to look for him, he was already looking at me. What does this mean? If he thinks I'm attractive, why doesn't he talk to me? Thanks!
solidadvice4teens answered Thursday December 23 2010, 8:49 pm: He doesn't talk to you for the same reasons you can't to him. He's shy and embarrassed about approaching you.
All you need to do is acknowledge him when you see him and start talking to him if you are sure you are interested in him and go from there. That's all this really boils down to. Someone has to make a move and he's not sure what your reaction will be. So, if you want him you have to show interest back. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
yourrtrustyhelpline answered Thursday December 23 2010, 6:33 pm: i think he does seem to be interested in you, but he might just be a little shy. if you're interested in him as well, you should let him know somehow. next time your eyes meet, give him a little smile. boys are not as confident as the movies and t.v. shows make them out to be. they are just as afraid of rejection as we are. make him feel more confident about his interest in you! show him that you are interested as well, and who knows, maybe he'll go for it. good luck! [ yourrtrustyhelpline's advice column | Ask yourrtrustyhelpline A Question ]
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