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umm about my other problem im just a teen im only 13 im not a mother still
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I apologize for miss reading your original question.
Your 13 years old; Are you a good or bad daughter? I don't think that is the real issue here. Besides the fact that you are using the question sort of rules out the bad daughter question.
What is at issue is the mood swings, the screaming and some other issues you may be experiencing. At 13 years of age boys and girl go through puberty which continues in some through their early twenties. Girls, for reasons I'm not truly aware of, seem to have more problems with puberty then boys.
A girl has all the problems of her body changing, dealing with her period, the hormonal changes taking place. Then there are the external changes to her life. The social changes at school and at home. At 13 you are considered a young adult so more is expected of you. Then there are boys and learning to deal with the hormonal changes they are dealing with and how to fend them off.
This is a lot to heap on someone of any age let alone someone your age or even younger. You deal with it by being short tempered, constant mood swings, stubbornness and even being somewhat rebellious. Does any of this fit you? If you see yourself in any of what I have just written I would suggest checking in with the family doctor. Tell the doctor everything that is going on in your life, mood, sings, crying for no reason whatever has changed. There is medication that can help you while you adjust to all the changes going on in your life.
There is one thing I saw that I'm not entirely sure has to do with puberty and that has to do with the camera. To me that was selfish of you to demand that of you parents. Only you know if you were this way before puberty. If you were then this is something you have to work on.
If as I am thinking that most of what you have written is brought on by puberty, and I think I'm right as you sound a lot like one of my nieces at your age. Then I also suggest that you sit down with mom and ask if you can have a mother daughter talk. You start by apologizing for how you have been behaving lately. Then ask her for help with some of the changes your going through. Your mom went through them and she will remember how she felt, she may have just forgotten what it was like until you ask for help.
As parents there is nothing you will see or do that we haven't already seen or done. Our job is to help you through the tough times in your life and help you find a safe passage. You will do the same for your children.
As a parent I can tell you there is nothing my child can do to make me stop loving him. I may get upset or mad at him. But in the end my love will come through and I will move heaven and earth to make things right. I'm sure your parents will and eventually you will for your children. So no matter what happens now in or in the future never be fearful of going to your parents for help. They are the ones in this world who truly love you. End of lecture.
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