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thank you
This question is as much a thank you for your response to my 'infatuated' question as anything-your answer really made me think about some things. I do have very low self esteem, and I think that distorts my perception of a lot of things.
I did have one question, that I know that
nobody else can really answer-but you seem very wise about such things. Do you think that writing a letter to this guy, (without sending it) might help? I thought about doing that, but then felt weird. But I guess there would be nothing wrong with putting my feelings on paper-I have been feeling guilty about these feelings, but as long as I do nothing to act on them, I guess there is no need.
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I'm so glad that you're thinking some things over. I think that writing a letter is a good way to express your thoughts and feelings. I am better at expressing myself in written form, and find it easier to get all my thoughts out on paper or email. You can write a letter, and save it, and maybe one day when you're ready, you can actually give the letter to this guy. But that's only if you feel comfortable- you can do whatever you want with it, the important thing is to be able to express your feelings. Writing in a diary would be a good idea too.
Also, last year when I was feeling pretty low, I sat down and typed out a list of about 50 things I like about myself- the deep,and even silly things that make me ME. I sometimes read it over when I feel like I'm stuck in a rut, and it always makes me feel better. You have so many good qualities- it's just a matter of feeling good about yourself.
So I would definitely recommend writing a letter to get your feelings out, and consider keeping a diary as well. If you have any other questions, feel free to message me. All the best :)
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