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I like him so much I want him back it's pathetic
Ok so long story this guy dan me and him spent so much time together during the summer we never stopped texting unless I usually fell asleep aha but anyway just randomly he stoped texting and school started btw I'm a freshman and he's a sophmore. I found out he use to likeme so made me like him even more and I've been trying to move on but I can't like I've realized I like him way to much to just move on to a random dude and I'm the type of girl who doesn't really get all the guys... Well dan is in 2 of my classes but it's justkinda awkward between us and he sometimes flirts with this one girl it makes my heart drop and I get so upset in school:( look aha the point is I can't get over him and before classes change like the end of January I need to get him back bc I dot want to lose him anymore than I already did plz help me little baby steps day by day Im willing to do anything I've tried some stuff but it's still awkward help me get me back into his mind bc I can't stop thinking about him!
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Hey there,
You are not pathetic because you want a guy back. You just realized that you have more feelings than you thought about him. It takes a break up to see that sometimes. The first thing I would do is see why he just stopped texting you. I don't know why he would tell you he likes you and then not talk to you..? Maybe he wants you to say something (which is what you must be trying to do).
I wouldn't move on to a random dude either and I am not a girl who dates a lot of guys. Dan probably see his "flirting" as a harmless act in class. A guy will see what we see as "flirting" to be "just talking" to another girl. He obviously doesn't realize that you have strong feelings for him or he wouldn't do this knowing it bugs you. So what he is doing, he isn't doing intentionally. To get him back, you have to let him know that you like him as more than a friend. This would mean you have to find time to spend with him. Once you have time alone with him, talk to him. Let him know how you feel and say it would mean alot if he would be willing to make you two something more.
Ultimately, the more time you spend with him and the more you are just being yourself around him, the more he will remember the old you and want to talk more. If you are open, he is likely to open up as well. He already said he liked you, so tell him how much you enjoyed texting in the summer and let him know you are there for him if he needs. Spend time with him (movies, grabbing drinks, walking, studying), talk one on one (about anything and everything), and see if he would like to go further with you (in time). To get back in his mind, you have to get back into his life first <3
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