Question Posted Wednesday December 15 2010, 4:06 pm
Ok so I really like this guy dan and we use to talk all the time he's a sophmore ok a freshman and he's in two of my classes which kills me every day I found out he use to like me which made me even more upset bc I sorta liked him back in the summer time too it's been so long when we had a full on conversation and I realize how much I miss him I sometimes catch him looking at him bc I sometimes look at him but I see him flirting with this other girl and that makes me regret not trying hard enough it's been so long I can't get over him I really tried I want to talk to him it's just so awkward now idk what happened I've tried writing a note to him and one time I texted him but I fell asleep before he replied and sometimes he just doesn't respond what do I do I want him back so bad bc I realized no one else has really apealed to me as much I just don't want to lose him anymore than I already did it's so hard gong through the days seeing him knowing it's kinda awkward I want him back what can I possibly do now:/
And you wanna know what you should do? Quite simple really: talk to him. Truly talk to him. Tell him how you feel. If he feels the same great, if he doesn't, that just gives you the incentive to move on. Because, trust me, you're not going to move on until you know for a fact that there's no chance. I know, because I'm the same way. If I like someone and I can't get over them, I just tell them. If they like me, we end up dating, if they don't, I move on because I know. It's a lot easier to move on when there's no hope. That sounds bad, but it's true. Just don't get defensive about him flirting; that just might be the type of guy that he is and it will put him on the defensive and then yall will get into a fight, and it'll just get messy. Nerves are a given, but that'll only make you stronger.
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