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Hey I just can't get over him
Hiya well I need your help again... So I really like this guy let's say his name is dan but I know e doesn't like me anymore and I know he use to and I'm a freshman and he's a sophmore but some how we ended up in the same health and math class and it drives me crazy like he talk to this girl in math like he use to talk to me and it makes me so jealous so far like some days like out of random I'll start crying because I wish I took more chances with him and now it's awkward between me and him and it kills me every day I see him and I can't jet talk to him like I use to I miss it so much like I have flashbacks of the time we spent toghther and we weren't like bf and gf but we spent the most amazing time together I just can't seem to get over it it kills me each day what should I do please tell me I need your good advice I can't be crying like this anymore it's gone to far
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Have you tried talking to him casually? Doesn't need to be anything major. Just say- hey Dan how's it going?. Smile. Then walk away. He won't think it's weird if you do it enough times. If he says anything, just say "I'm just being nice.. I say this kind of stuff to everyone. Even strangers." if it helps, you can even say "hey" to a few people around him, and then say hey to him, that way it doesn't seem like it was directed at him, it was directed at other people too.
Key tip is to take baby steps. I know you want to dive right in and be friends with him already. But it takes time and patience. Also trust is another thing.
Every few weeks, try to step it up a notch and say something else like- do you know what the homework was? Or I like your shoes. Or i saw you the other day.
Once you get the nerve to talk to him, I promise you it will just get easier from then on. If you want, you can try writing him a note saying your bored and want to talk to someone. Or write an email or text. You can even try this if you're up for it- talk to him and say "hey I really need advice or I need someone to talk to. I'm not having a good day and I am
In a bad mood. Can you cheer me up?" something like that. That way, he will know that you trust him and go to him for help. It could even be homework help. Make him know that you're considering him as an option for help.
If you guys start talking more, try saying something like- hey I was looking at pictures and saw one of us back in the old days. Do you remember when we had so much fun? We
Should hang out again soon! I miss you!
Good luck :) be brave and strong :) inbox again if you have more questions!
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